Let0→NfRgM→0and0→Nf′R′g′M→0be two exact sequences, θandθ′their associated classes inExt1(M,N). Forθ=θ′to hold, it is necessary and sufficient that there exists an A-homomorphism h:R→R′making the diagram
Nf↓hf′RR↓gMR′g′
commutative. Such a homomorphism is necessarily an isomorphism.
The condition is sufficient according to cor. 1 of prop. 4. If θ=θ′, there exists a commutative diagram with exact rows:
The homomorphisms h′ and h′′ are isomorphisms according to X, p. 7, cor. 3, and h=h′′∘h′−1 answers the question. The last assertion follows from loc. cit.
Bourbaki puts the proof directly after the statement, so what is above is the statement and its proof together.